I am learning just how uneducated driving instruction people are right now... it's kind of useful to know the difference between "effect" and "affect"! Does the good state of Utah not care that its driver handbook is laced with spelling errors and other embarrassing typos?
(Incidentally, I am just biding my time until I make a spelling mistake in one of these sorts of comments... I know it's bound to happen some day. I'll take that risk.)
Also:
Now you know why the instructional videos are boring to death. Their voices alone make me want to go out back and beat myself with a rubber hose, especially when they tell me to "keep your hands on the will."
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Monday, December 27, 2010
France
I'm on hold with the town hall of Bordeaux right now... it's pretty exciting! Talking to "official" french people makes me giddy inside--it's so close I can almost taste it. It also makes me very nervous because French civil servants (or salespeople for that matter) have a way of making you feel like a complete idiot, and considering I haven't lived in France for the past... four years, and don't speak french with "pure" french speakers very often (by pure I mean people who don't live in America and get tainted by being surrounded by English all the time), I'm a bit nervous about how I sound. Plus, I've never been a grownup in France, which means I don't even know where to start with all the administrative jargon and paperwork.
We're trying to see if we can get student aid in France for our housing this summer. It looks like I can get a little something, and anything helps!
Also, when you get married you get a "family book" (which I assure you has nothing to do with scrap-booking) that essentially takes the place of a marriage certificate; it establishes you as a legal family, and then you add your kids in as you have them, etc. This will allow my kids to have dual citizenship just like me. Andrew thinks it's funny his kids will have another nationality than his own (although they'll be American too), I guess it is pretty unique.
We're trying to see if we can get student aid in France for our housing this summer. It looks like I can get a little something, and anything helps!
Also, when you get married you get a "family book" (which I assure you has nothing to do with scrap-booking) that essentially takes the place of a marriage certificate; it establishes you as a legal family, and then you add your kids in as you have them, etc. This will allow my kids to have dual citizenship just like me. Andrew thinks it's funny his kids will have another nationality than his own (although they'll be American too), I guess it is pretty unique.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Missing home just a little
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Blogging tips
I just imported my other blog into this one, and you didn't even notice! The posts just went to the dates they were posted on the other one, and tadaa!
Instructions here
Also, I just found out how to add this cool gadget ("You might also like" links). You just have to go here and it's ridiculously easy! It's also really helpful to add labels to your posts, the links will be more relevant.
Actually, I take that back. I have no idea how it determines what posts to link to...
Instructions here
Also, I just found out how to add this cool gadget ("You might also like" links). You just have to go here and it's ridiculously easy! It's also really helpful to add labels to your posts, the links will be more relevant.
Actually, I take that back. I have no idea how it determines what posts to link to...
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
I like words
Top 10 words with remarkable origins
Also, this is funny: depending on various current events, there are spikes in searches for terms. Check it out!
Also, this is funny: depending on various current events, there are spikes in searches for terms. Check it out!
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Life goal...
... accomplished, or at least one of them.
This doesn't actually mean all that much in the grand scheme of things, it's just a ranking according to this organization, but I always told myself I wanted to get into the top 100 (U.S., not world... ha that would be the day!), and there we are now.
And that's pretty darn cool if you ask me :)
Saturday, December 18, 2010
The true "true meaning of Christmas"
You may or may not know that I'm the music person for our ward, but I am. And I've kind of gone crazy planning what was supposed to be an awesome Christmas Sacrament meeting program. Two weeks ago, I was certain it was going to be a disaster (pretty much due to my own bad planning), and then in true Christmas miracle style, lots of different people came to the rescue and now I'm sure everything will go very well tomorrow.
Anyway. I found this article very interesting--you should take a look.
"If we read the clues in our culture--Hollywood Christmas stories, casual comments, Christmas cards, even some sermons--it becomes apparent what the "true meaning of Christmas" is supposed to be. Christmas is the celebration of love, generosity, benevolence, kindness, brotherhood, and familial bonding, and the celebration of the joy, peace, and security that those things promote. The true meaning of Christmas--according to this way of thinking--is a kind of Hallmark sentimentality about a world where there is no strife, no anger, no hatred, and no criticism; a world in which there is no warfare in any of its forms.
...
As the magi and the shepherds and Mary and Joseph looked down on a baby lying in the manger, what brought them joy was not the vision of a world where everyone was as gentle and innocent as a baby. What brought them joy was the vision of the final and ultimate defeat of sin and death. They did not see a gentle baby; they saw a fierce warrior, a mighty king--a king who would subdue every enemy, conquer every foe, and bring about total and unfailing allegiance to God and the goodness which He is. He would bring about peace between people; but only after a long, hard, protracted struggle in which we must fight. The more immediate meaning of Christmas is not the joy of PEACE ON EARTH; it is the joy of the promise of VICTORY OVER EVIL."
Anyway. I found this article very interesting--you should take a look.
"If we read the clues in our culture--Hollywood Christmas stories, casual comments, Christmas cards, even some sermons--it becomes apparent what the "true meaning of Christmas" is supposed to be. Christmas is the celebration of love, generosity, benevolence, kindness, brotherhood, and familial bonding, and the celebration of the joy, peace, and security that those things promote. The true meaning of Christmas--according to this way of thinking--is a kind of Hallmark sentimentality about a world where there is no strife, no anger, no hatred, and no criticism; a world in which there is no warfare in any of its forms.
...
As the magi and the shepherds and Mary and Joseph looked down on a baby lying in the manger, what brought them joy was not the vision of a world where everyone was as gentle and innocent as a baby. What brought them joy was the vision of the final and ultimate defeat of sin and death. They did not see a gentle baby; they saw a fierce warrior, a mighty king--a king who would subdue every enemy, conquer every foe, and bring about total and unfailing allegiance to God and the goodness which He is. He would bring about peace between people; but only after a long, hard, protracted struggle in which we must fight. The more immediate meaning of Christmas is not the joy of PEACE ON EARTH; it is the joy of the promise of VICTORY OVER EVIL."
If I were filthy rich
This would be my husband's Christmas present.
And a fancy matching power pen.
Oh, and my kids will get this:
My favorite childhood books. There was a whole series about this little girl. Also note her fabulous sense of style!
Friday, December 17, 2010
Resume reels
So now that I don't have a hobby anymore, it's time to really dig in and get working on what I've been wanting to do for... quite some time. Reporting.
I have a few projects in the works, one of which includes translating and voicing over Who What When Where Why in French next semester. And some other stuff--you know, denouncing corruption and all that stuff.
Tonight I've been watching resume reels (some not as professional as others) to get inspired. This guy is just plain awesome.
I'll be taking a "performance for broadcast" class next semester with one of ABC4's reporters, so I'm planning on improving on my form.
As far as content goes, I have somewhat of a plan as well. The investigative reporting class I took this semester was absolutely fantastic. I have ideas and ways to accomplish them as well. It's funny because we talk about freedom of information a lot, but the truth is a lot of information is available--what it is not, however, is easy to access.
Anyway. That is all for now.
Oh wait. I've been wanting to post this and completely forgot. This is the result of a legislative research project I did this semester, and I'm actually quite happy about it. Anyway, have fun.
Unless you’re a pharmacist or a health plan manager, chances are you’ve never heard of a Pharmacy Benefits Manager, and yet they form a significant link in the complex creature that is your health plan. PBMs act as the middlemen between pharmaceutical companies and health plan providers, negotiating rebates and contracts in order to get you the best value on prescription medicine. Just how good of a deal you’re getting, however, is not easy to judge according to state Rep. Evan Vickers.
Currently, PBMs do not have to transfer all the benefits they receive from pharmaceutical companies directly to the health benefit plans, and they do not necessarily give complete information on all services. Vickers proposes to change that by requiring PBMs to provide itemized statements to health benefit plans and pay the entire amount received for pharmacy services in connection with a health benefit plan. The goal, says Vickers, is transparency in order to reduce the cost of healthcare. “This is something that a lot of PBMs are already doing, but we hope to give benefit plans the option to make a good determination, whether they can stay with that PBM or move to a more transparent option” said Vickers.
Medco Health Solutions, one of the nation’s three biggest Pharmacy Benefits Management companies, has been involved in interim committee hearings, and their lobbyists have mentioned “serious concerns” over the bill. A Medco representative was unwilling to comment at this point of the process.
Vickers’ Pharmacy Benefits Manager Act is not the first attempt at legislating PBMs, since many other states already have their own versions of the bill. Vickers says other states have saved considerable amounts on prescription drugs as a direct result of PBM regulation, citing the University of Michigan’s $50 million savings in the first year alone. The Utah act comes in a long line of attempts at regulating the wildly profitable industry that is Pharmacy Benefits Management: each of the three major PBM companies has annual revenue numbers that exceed $15 billion, and those profits continue to rise even as the cost of prescription drugs increases.
Consumer advocates have expressed concerns over what they consider a lack of transparency and emphasize the need for PBM reform. An October 2009 letter to the U.S. House of Representatives from the Maine-based National Legislative Association on Prescription Drug Prices stated: “Because of the lack of regulation PBMs engage in fraudulent and deceptive practices, resulting in several enforcement actions by a coalition of state attorneys generals that have secured over $371 million in fines and penalties.” Currently, Maine is the only state with a law that imposes on PBMs a fiduciary duty to clients’ health plans: the U.S. District court of D.C. struck down a similar law in the District of Columbia this summer.
At this point, the bill is still a draft, but Vickers says he hopes to get the interim committee to vote on it and put it on the table first thing come January. He says he plans to work with all the parties involved: “I’m not naïve enough to think that I’ll be getting everybody around the table together singing kumbaya, but we’re going to get as close to a consensus as we can.” It is not yet determined how much the act should cost, but according to Vickers the only foreseeable cost would be that of monitoring compliance. The interim committee on Health and Human Services motioned last week to meet on November 17th in order to discuss Rep. Vickers’ proposal.
If you're still reading, I wrote Rep. Vickers an email just now to ask about the status of his bill. I can't find any info on the utah legislature website so I have a feeling it might have fallen through. I'll let you know the rest of this gripping story soon... :)
**EDIT: Wow. I wrote Rep. Vickers an hour ago and he just answered me. (I'm just going to say that America is awesome--there's no way a French elected official would bother to answer some college girl's email.)
The bill was unanimously approved by the Health and Human Services Interim Committee, which means it will go on to the general session in January as a committee bill, which doesn't guarantee passage in the session, but does give it a better chance.**
In all seriousness, if you want to be scandalized, look up lawsuits against PBM companies, and seethe in anger.
Also, kudos if you're still reading, what do you think about the James Zadroga Bill?
I have a few projects in the works, one of which includes translating and voicing over Who What When Where Why in French next semester. And some other stuff--you know, denouncing corruption and all that stuff.
Tonight I've been watching resume reels (some not as professional as others) to get inspired. This guy is just plain awesome.
I'll be taking a "performance for broadcast" class next semester with one of ABC4's reporters, so I'm planning on improving on my form.
As far as content goes, I have somewhat of a plan as well. The investigative reporting class I took this semester was absolutely fantastic. I have ideas and ways to accomplish them as well. It's funny because we talk about freedom of information a lot, but the truth is a lot of information is available--what it is not, however, is easy to access.
Anyway. That is all for now.
Oh wait. I've been wanting to post this and completely forgot. This is the result of a legislative research project I did this semester, and I'm actually quite happy about it. Anyway, have fun.
Unless you’re a pharmacist or a health plan manager, chances are you’ve never heard of a Pharmacy Benefits Manager, and yet they form a significant link in the complex creature that is your health plan. PBMs act as the middlemen between pharmaceutical companies and health plan providers, negotiating rebates and contracts in order to get you the best value on prescription medicine. Just how good of a deal you’re getting, however, is not easy to judge according to state Rep. Evan Vickers.
Currently, PBMs do not have to transfer all the benefits they receive from pharmaceutical companies directly to the health benefit plans, and they do not necessarily give complete information on all services. Vickers proposes to change that by requiring PBMs to provide itemized statements to health benefit plans and pay the entire amount received for pharmacy services in connection with a health benefit plan. The goal, says Vickers, is transparency in order to reduce the cost of healthcare. “This is something that a lot of PBMs are already doing, but we hope to give benefit plans the option to make a good determination, whether they can stay with that PBM or move to a more transparent option” said Vickers.
Medco Health Solutions, one of the nation’s three biggest Pharmacy Benefits Management companies, has been involved in interim committee hearings, and their lobbyists have mentioned “serious concerns” over the bill. A Medco representative was unwilling to comment at this point of the process.
Vickers’ Pharmacy Benefits Manager Act is not the first attempt at legislating PBMs, since many other states already have their own versions of the bill. Vickers says other states have saved considerable amounts on prescription drugs as a direct result of PBM regulation, citing the University of Michigan’s $50 million savings in the first year alone. The Utah act comes in a long line of attempts at regulating the wildly profitable industry that is Pharmacy Benefits Management: each of the three major PBM companies has annual revenue numbers that exceed $15 billion, and those profits continue to rise even as the cost of prescription drugs increases.
Consumer advocates have expressed concerns over what they consider a lack of transparency and emphasize the need for PBM reform. An October 2009 letter to the U.S. House of Representatives from the Maine-based National Legislative Association on Prescription Drug Prices stated: “Because of the lack of regulation PBMs engage in fraudulent and deceptive practices, resulting in several enforcement actions by a coalition of state attorneys generals that have secured over $371 million in fines and penalties.” Currently, Maine is the only state with a law that imposes on PBMs a fiduciary duty to clients’ health plans: the U.S. District court of D.C. struck down a similar law in the District of Columbia this summer.
At this point, the bill is still a draft, but Vickers says he hopes to get the interim committee to vote on it and put it on the table first thing come January. He says he plans to work with all the parties involved: “I’m not naïve enough to think that I’ll be getting everybody around the table together singing kumbaya, but we’re going to get as close to a consensus as we can.” It is not yet determined how much the act should cost, but according to Vickers the only foreseeable cost would be that of monitoring compliance. The interim committee on Health and Human Services motioned last week to meet on November 17th in order to discuss Rep. Vickers’ proposal.
If you're still reading, I wrote Rep. Vickers an email just now to ask about the status of his bill. I can't find any info on the utah legislature website so I have a feeling it might have fallen through. I'll let you know the rest of this gripping story soon... :)
**EDIT: Wow. I wrote Rep. Vickers an hour ago and he just answered me. (I'm just going to say that America is awesome--there's no way a French elected official would bother to answer some college girl's email.)
The bill was unanimously approved by the Health and Human Services Interim Committee, which means it will go on to the general session in January as a committee bill, which doesn't guarantee passage in the session, but does give it a better chance.**
In all seriousness, if you want to be scandalized, look up lawsuits against PBM companies, and seethe in anger.
Also, kudos if you're still reading, what do you think about the James Zadroga Bill?
Holy cow
This is pretty amazing. The translation is obviously not perfect, but it's still pretty incredible!
Or should I say increíble! :)
Or should I say increíble! :)
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Chill out
I know I need to relax and do things at my own pace, in the time that things are right, but....
why the heck is my pace always slower than everybody else's?!?!?!
Also, why wasn't I born into wealth and high society? Life would be so much easier.
why the heck is my pace always slower than everybody else's?!?!?!
Also, why wasn't I born into wealth and high society? Life would be so much easier.
Oh barf
http://news.yahoo.com/s/atlantic/atheistbillboardonnativitysceneyouknowitsamyth5979
I have much more to say about this soon...
I have much more to say about this soon...
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Pants on the ground
What think ye?
http://www.nbcmiami.com/around-town/fashion/Pants-on-the-Ground-Pay-a-Fine-111614709.html
Is it inappropriate to legislate fashion choices? Or do you think it was a good idea?
Some of the debate and points the ACLU brings up is that it's essentially racial profiling, but keep in mind that the mayor and a big chunk of the council are all black... So then what?
http://www.nbcmiami.com/around-town/fashion/Pants-on-the-Ground-Pay-a-Fine-111614709.html
Is it inappropriate to legislate fashion choices? Or do you think it was a good idea?
Some of the debate and points the ACLU brings up is that it's essentially racial profiling, but keep in mind that the mayor and a big chunk of the council are all black... So then what?
Monday, December 13, 2010
Can I have your notes?
I keep getting these stupid emails from people who didn't take notes, missed the review, bla bla bla, so instead of getting annoyed this time, I mass sent an email of my own :)
Hi everybody, I know you're sick of receiving emails like this requesting notes, so guess what? I am too!
This one isn't requesting notes!
Instead of being annoyed by all the emails I've received, I decided to respond with something equally useless:
I don't take notes on a laptop, but I can offer some fun with a funny video while you study your brains out for physical science!
http://www.juliansmith.tv/ 2010/11/red-eye-flashes-twice/
and if you like really stupid cat videos, check this out
http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=RhpMYFu8Lu0&feature=related
Also, I vow that this is the last mass email I ever send. Aren't you proud of me?
Hi everybody, I know you're sick of receiving emails like this requesting notes, so guess what? I am too!
This one isn't requesting notes!
Instead of being annoyed by all the emails I've received, I decided to respond with something equally useless:
I don't take notes on a laptop, but I can offer some fun with a funny video while you study your brains out for physical science!
http://www.juliansmith.tv/
and if you like really stupid cat videos, check this out
http://www.youtube.com/watch?
Also, I vow that this is the last mass email I ever send. Aren't you proud of me?
Christmas angel
She feeds the birds!
I have this cute willow tree ornament, but I don't love having things sitting around all the time so I decided to make her a Christmas ornament--I lived in Virginia for a few years as a little girl and Cardinals were some of my favorite birds, and they are such pretty Holiday birds :)
I just put some tape to protect the arms, then painted a few coats of red
Not that Cardinals actually have gold on them... Christmas ones do though!
I have this cute willow tree ornament, but I don't love having things sitting around all the time so I decided to make her a Christmas ornament--I lived in Virginia for a few years as a little girl and Cardinals were some of my favorite birds, and they are such pretty Holiday birds :)
I just put some tape to protect the arms, then painted a few coats of red
Dabbed on come gold, and voilà!
Not that Cardinals actually have gold on them... Christmas ones do though!
Christmas cheer
This is the apartment I was talking about.
Awesome no?
We have Christmas cheer too, as demonstrated by these awesome aprons made by Andrew's mom,
and my idiotically large grin.
Awesome no?
We have Christmas cheer too, as demonstrated by these awesome aprons made by Andrew's mom,
and my idiotically large grin.
Well I got Who What When Where Why, which isn't what I wanted but it's better than nothing. It's especially good practice because I write the whole segment. I'm a bit worried though because I only have one semester after the next one to anchor in, and it's going to be hard to open up my schedule. Oh well.
I shouldn't say this, but...
Nevermind. I'm just going to sound bitter.
Also, why do I keep choosing majors where there are too many girls and not enough guys?
I shouldn't say this, but...
Nevermind. I'm just going to sound bitter.
Also, why do I keep choosing majors where there are too many girls and not enough guys?
A little bit of humor
As finals week stretches on...
What a scary thought... I do have a lot to say actually about education, but right now I'm on deadline... Soon!
What a scary thought... I do have a lot to say actually about education, but right now I'm on deadline... Soon!
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Just saying
Thought you might want to know:
I am blogging. FROM A PLANE. Right now.
And I have to admit, it never ceases to amaze me. My favorite part is when you get above the top layer of clouds and suddenly it's sunny, and you're above a sea of clouds. Also, Utah skies are most beautiful in the winter.
Also, every time I fly, I get tomato juice. Inevitably. The funny thing is, I never buy it, but whenever I fly, I gotta have my tomato juice**. Mmmmm!
I must admit though, the Nevada sunset is looking pretty awesome too right now :)
**Andrew's note: tomato juice is disgusting.
*Edit: Raimo introduced me to this awesome, relevant video :)
I am blogging. FROM A PLANE. Right now.
And I have to admit, it never ceases to amaze me. My favorite part is when you get above the top layer of clouds and suddenly it's sunny, and you're above a sea of clouds. Also, Utah skies are most beautiful in the winter.
Also, every time I fly, I get tomato juice. Inevitably. The funny thing is, I never buy it, but whenever I fly, I gotta have my tomato juice**. Mmmmm!
I must admit though, the Nevada sunset is looking pretty awesome too right now :)
**Andrew's note: tomato juice is disgusting.
*Edit: Raimo introduced me to this awesome, relevant video :)
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Christmas craze
I can't wait to have a Christmas when I'm not in school scrambling like a crazy person to finish stuff up before the semester ends.
We had the BDC closing social Tuesday:
It was officially my last Ballroom dance company event... ever. That's pretty sad. But it really was time to move on. I submitted my anchor application today so cross your fingers for me and if I'm really lucky (or just that good :) then I could be an anchor for the show in the winter! I even cleared out my schedule large and wide to make sure I maximized my chances. We shall see.
One of my favorite things about team was our director: Curt Holman. He's awesome, and it's really been a pleasure working under his direction. He expects a lot out of us and pushed us hard, but he was never evil and is lots of fun too.
And of course my AWESOME teammates! Thanks everyone for a fun last semester--it's been great getting to know all these talented people, and it's really crazy what a diverse group we are--we've got engineers, linguists, scientists, sociologists, reporters :) and of course, dancers.
And then came summer team, where I noticed a handsome young man named Andrew Nelson...
(OK, he actually caught my eye before that, I just happened to spend more time around him when we were on the same team)
Yep, those blue dresses again...
*Minus the early mornings, the drama and the politics. Of course.
We had the BDC closing social Tuesday:
In the gorgeous Alumni building |
One of my favorite things about team was our director: Curt Holman. He's awesome, and it's really been a pleasure working under his direction. He expects a lot out of us and pushed us hard, but he was never evil and is lots of fun too.
And of course my AWESOME teammates! Thanks everyone for a fun last semester--it's been great getting to know all these talented people, and it's really crazy what a diverse group we are--we've got engineers, linguists, scientists, sociologists, reporters :) and of course, dancers.
Tango at the faculty concert |
the girls at my last show |
Ok, let's go on a little tour:
First team: spring team |
First number |
(OK, he actually caught my eye before that, I just happened to spend more time around him when we were on the same team)
First (and only) latin number |
This photo is probably a good explanation of the reason I don't do Latin. I just don't think I have a good feel for it, ya know?
Then came fall: 10 o'clock team with Kirstyn
Of course, you can't help but take a foxy photo when dancing the foxtrot |
Oh Gab... |
And concert :
Technically these outfits have skirts to them, but who needs a skirt right? I'm pretty sure the gentlemen of the company had a vote going on for best legs after this, but it's just a rumor I heard.
And then of course backup tour team, also known as BUTT, which I think is an atrocious acronym. But that's really how we were called on the order of events list!
Bye bye Ballroom company, I really will miss you!*
Monday, December 6, 2010
Done.
I quit team today, it's official. Curt gave me the spiel about how the team will miss me, and that was it.
I can't say that I'm jumping for joy quite yet.
On an unrelated note, I have no idea what I'm going to wear for the BDC closing social...
Also, there is now nothing holding me back from cutting my hair as short as I want. YES!!!
I can't say that I'm jumping for joy quite yet.
On an unrelated note, I have no idea what I'm going to wear for the BDC closing social...
Also, there is now nothing holding me back from cutting my hair as short as I want. YES!!!
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Thanksgiving
Yes, this is late, but better late than never! I had trouble downloading the photos for some reason.
Andrew and I were bums while waiting at the gas station for the Greyhound for about 2 hours...
And let me tell you, it was a cold night! Here is a picture of the snowstorm on the way back
Yup, it was a white-out. No picture needed.
Andrew got a family massage...
Nathan and I tried on cowboy hats
Nathan helped Opi do the yardwork
And then we broke off icicles :)
Andrew and I were bums while waiting at the gas station for the Greyhound for about 2 hours...
And let me tell you, it was a cold night! Here is a picture of the snowstorm on the way back
Yup, it was a white-out. No picture needed.
Andrew got a family massage...
Nathan and I tried on cowboy hats
Nathan took this picture! |
"Stick 'em up!" |
I made an awesome lemon pie, if I do say so myself :) All the food was amazing though, I wish every day were thanksgiving. On second thought, I take that back. I have no intake control mechanism, and I'd get huge in no time!
Nathan helped Opi do the yardwork
And then we broke off icicles :)
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Couples night in
Here are some fun ideas and things we've been doing lately. When the weather gets too harsh outside, you have no choice (or desire) but to bundle up and sip hot chocolate--which happens to be Andrew's favorite winter beverage.
Mmmmm.
Just drinking hot chocolate is a little boring however, so in between homework and whatever else we have to do, here are a few things we've been doing.
Listening to Christmas music. Of course! A few of my favorites:
1) Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Duh. My all-time favorite is This Is Christmas, closely followed by Ring Christmas Bells.
2) Time-Life Music: Treasury of Christmas - Holiday Memories is a classic
3) Christmas Around the World by the USAF Singing Sergeants. My Dad sang a solo for O Holy Night (in french of course) on that one, so obviously it's pretty awesome to me.
Also, you should check this out: it's a dramatic reading of the "true story" about Santa Claus, and it's pretty amazing. Yes, it's technically for kids, but Andrew and I really like it! We want to get it for our kids and make it a family tradition. You can listen to it for free online! Be careful though, starting at episode 4 the chapters are one off, and "episode 8" is actually episode 4. So to clarify, to hear the story in order you need to go in this order: 1, 2, 3, 8, 4, 5, 6, 7. You're welcome.
Here's a fun family home evening for couples: do the 5 love languages quiz. I think the theory is a little overrated; no person fits neatly into one category, but it can provide some good insight into your spouse's needs and how to best show them love. Take the two quizzes (for husband and for wife) together and then discuss. Then each person gives three examples of a time they felt especially loved by the other and how that love was manifested. Discuss, and have a fun F.H.E.!
Mmmmm.
Just drinking hot chocolate is a little boring however, so in between homework and whatever else we have to do, here are a few things we've been doing.
Listening to Christmas music. Of course! A few of my favorites:
1) Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Duh. My all-time favorite is This Is Christmas, closely followed by Ring Christmas Bells.
2) Time-Life Music: Treasury of Christmas - Holiday Memories is a classic
3) Christmas Around the World by the USAF Singing Sergeants. My Dad sang a solo for O Holy Night (in french of course) on that one, so obviously it's pretty awesome to me.
Also, you should check this out: it's a dramatic reading of the "true story" about Santa Claus, and it's pretty amazing. Yes, it's technically for kids, but Andrew and I really like it! We want to get it for our kids and make it a family tradition. You can listen to it for free online! Be careful though, starting at episode 4 the chapters are one off, and "episode 8" is actually episode 4. So to clarify, to hear the story in order you need to go in this order: 1, 2, 3, 8, 4, 5, 6, 7. You're welcome.
Here's a fun family home evening for couples: do the 5 love languages quiz. I think the theory is a little overrated; no person fits neatly into one category, but it can provide some good insight into your spouse's needs and how to best show them love. Take the two quizzes (for husband and for wife) together and then discuss. Then each person gives three examples of a time they felt especially loved by the other and how that love was manifested. Discuss, and have a fun F.H.E.!
Here's a picture of snuggling goats to get you motivated. |
Christmas decoration in college town
It's not big scale, but it's just the touch our little place needs :)
What I really need to post is a picture of one of our neighbors' apartment... it is CRAZY festive; they put lights all outside their apartment entrance, and you can see their enormous tree through the window.
It's pretty awesome.
We have a Christmas tree too, only it sits on the sewing table:
And some lights..
A little Santa sits above the chimney-- er, microwave.
And my little quilt found its place on the wall
What I really need to post is a picture of one of our neighbors' apartment... it is CRAZY festive; they put lights all outside their apartment entrance, and you can see their enormous tree through the window.
It's pretty awesome.
We have a Christmas tree too, only it sits on the sewing table:
And some lights..
A little Santa sits above the chimney-- er, microwave.
And my little quilt found its place on the wall
A return to modesty
Anybody read this? It looks very interesting.
A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue
"The 23-year-old author first heard of "modestyniks"--Orthodox Jewish women who withhold physical contact from men until marriage--while a freshman at Williams College. She was initially fascinated by the way in which they cleave to old ideals, especially amid a sexually saturated contemporary world. But more so, Wendy Shalit was aghast at how modestyniks are dismissed as sick, delusional, or repressed by the secular community. "Why," asks the author, "is sexual modesty so threatening to some that they can only respond to it with charges of abuse or delusion?"
In her thoughtful three-part essay, the author reveals an impressive reading list as she probes the cultural history of sexual modesty for women and considers whether this virtue may be beneficial in today's world--if not an antidote to misogyny. In an age when women are embarrassed by sexual inexperience, when sex education is introduced as early as primary school, and when women suffer more than ever from eating disorders, stalking, sexual harassment, and date rape, Shalit believes a return to modesty may place women on equal footing with men. She yearns for a time when conservatives can believe the claims of feminists and feminists can differentiate between patriarchy and misogyny and share in the dialectic of female sexuality.
While the young author's argument is often limited by naiveté and her own lack of experience, her profound intelligence and daring are undeniable. A Return to Modesty is a thought-provoking debut that introduces an original and exciting new feminist thinker."
Gotta love that last sentence though...
And on a somewhat unrelated note: this article is really ridiculous. Actually, I probably shouldn't post it because the author lost her previous job as a reporter due to plagiarism and inaccuracy, and this very article was pulled from the Elle website for inaccuracy issues... But it was so gosh darn interesting! Or revolting. Or both.
4/13/12 update: I did end up reading this book for a research paper, and it was really good. She has an agenda so of course not everything is very impartial but there were so many interesting perspectives. I highly recommend it for anyone ever dealing with young girls/young women/women in general. (oh wait, that means... everyone!)
A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue
"The 23-year-old author first heard of "modestyniks"--Orthodox Jewish women who withhold physical contact from men until marriage--while a freshman at Williams College. She was initially fascinated by the way in which they cleave to old ideals, especially amid a sexually saturated contemporary world. But more so, Wendy Shalit was aghast at how modestyniks are dismissed as sick, delusional, or repressed by the secular community. "Why," asks the author, "is sexual modesty so threatening to some that they can only respond to it with charges of abuse or delusion?"
In her thoughtful three-part essay, the author reveals an impressive reading list as she probes the cultural history of sexual modesty for women and considers whether this virtue may be beneficial in today's world--if not an antidote to misogyny. In an age when women are embarrassed by sexual inexperience, when sex education is introduced as early as primary school, and when women suffer more than ever from eating disorders, stalking, sexual harassment, and date rape, Shalit believes a return to modesty may place women on equal footing with men. She yearns for a time when conservatives can believe the claims of feminists and feminists can differentiate between patriarchy and misogyny and share in the dialectic of female sexuality.
While the young author's argument is often limited by naiveté and her own lack of experience, her profound intelligence and daring are undeniable. A Return to Modesty is a thought-provoking debut that introduces an original and exciting new feminist thinker."
Gotta love that last sentence though...
And on a somewhat unrelated note: this article is really ridiculous. Actually, I probably shouldn't post it because the author lost her previous job as a reporter due to plagiarism and inaccuracy, and this very article was pulled from the Elle website for inaccuracy issues... But it was so gosh darn interesting! Or revolting. Or both.
4/13/12 update: I did end up reading this book for a research paper, and it was really good. She has an agenda so of course not everything is very impartial but there were so many interesting perspectives. I highly recommend it for anyone ever dealing with young girls/young women/women in general. (oh wait, that means... everyone!)
Blegh
It's ironic that I miserably flunk my medals exam (ok, I passed just fine, but I did very poorly. Especially after everyone else did really well. I was feeling pretty sick and weak and sure enough, I danced accordingly. I'm pretty embarrassed considering that I know I could have done so much better.. I seriously danced like crap. I even saw Curt making pained faces as I danced.) the day after I have yet another one of those conversations with my husband that go like this:
"- Don't let me not quit team next semester
- I'm going to hold you to that...
- No wait!
...
- If I quit now then I'm a quitter. It'll be like all of that was for nothing. Oh wait, it already was: my only possibility of doing tour was this year, and that was quite obviously crushed...
- Then quit it.
- But I can't!
- You hate team!
- Yeah, but what if.... argh. You're right."
Message received, Universe. I get it all ready. Maybe I'm just being stubborn to piss off Lee.
"- Don't let me not quit team next semester
- I'm going to hold you to that...
- No wait!
...
- If I quit now then I'm a quitter. It'll be like all of that was for nothing. Oh wait, it already was: my only possibility of doing tour was this year, and that was quite obviously crushed...
- Then quit it.
- But I can't!
- You hate team!
- Yeah, but what if.... argh. You're right."
Message received, Universe. I get it all ready. Maybe I'm just being stubborn to piss off Lee.
Monday, November 29, 2010
The big fat nothing
My mom asked me to take pictures of the "historic blizzard" we're supposed to have had on Wednesday, so as a good daughter I diligently did so... But there's not really much to see.
We prepared like good little Mormons, got out the emergency candles and hot chocolate... Bought some ice in case we lost power and our fridge stopped working...
We peeked out the window every once in a while to see the progress of this "historic blizzard..." But it wasn't terribly spectacular.
BYU's emergency service kept sending mass text messages about the hazardous conditions (three times actually, within the course of the day, and each message was 6-7 texts long with a few words in each text...), so by night time I looked out the door:
Not that convincing. BYU even cancelled classes after 3 p.m. so all the BYU students could get a head start on their travelling, but, well... I wish they had cancelled classes today instead, because our trip home, now that was a real blizzard, complete with traffic at a crawl and plenty of accidents and a 6 hour trip that turned into 10 and a half. Ugh.
So there you have it, the blizzard that wasn't!
We prepared like good little Mormons, got out the emergency candles and hot chocolate... Bought some ice in case we lost power and our fridge stopped working...
We peeked out the window every once in a while to see the progress of this "historic blizzard..." But it wasn't terribly spectacular.
BYU's emergency service kept sending mass text messages about the hazardous conditions (three times actually, within the course of the day, and each message was 6-7 texts long with a few words in each text...), so by night time I looked out the door:
Not that convincing. BYU even cancelled classes after 3 p.m. so all the BYU students could get a head start on their travelling, but, well... I wish they had cancelled classes today instead, because our trip home, now that was a real blizzard, complete with traffic at a crawl and plenty of accidents and a 6 hour trip that turned into 10 and a half. Ugh.
So there you have it, the blizzard that wasn't!
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